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30. Twenty Nineteen (Part 9)
Jul01July 1, 2022Abusive Authority, Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

30. Twenty Nineteen (Part 9)

The pastor was discouraged because the younger people weren’t attending business meetings. The older members of the congregation gave the majority of the money, and they were also the ones who participated in the business meetings.

29. Twenty Nineteen (Part 8)
Jul01July 1, 2022Abusive Authority, Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

29. Twenty Nineteen (Part 8)

I wanted the church as a whole to hit its knees and realize that all the money, all the politics, all the hate, and all the power were simply evil and so far away from what the church was supposed to be.

27. Twenty Nineteen (Part 6)
Jun25June 25, 2022Abusive Authority, Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

27. Twenty Nineteen (Part 6)

“I think I want to quit my job”… that’s the only thing going through my head the last two days.

26. Twenty Nineteen (Part 5)
Jun24June 24, 2022Abusive Authority, Church Hurt, Spiritual Abuse

26. Twenty Nineteen (Part 5)

As I sat in the pastor’s office on the day of my evaluation, instead of celebrating this fantastic thing of 9 children coming to know Jesus and being baptized in the last 8 months, we were commiserating that we were 1 away from the goal.

25. Twenty Nineteen (Part 4)
Jun23June 23, 2022Abusive Authority, Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual Abuse

25. Twenty Nineteen (Part 4)

May of 2019 was crazy, and June looked just as busy. I was running on fumes. I could feel it, but there was nothing I could do to stop it.

24. I’m Sorry (Stand Alone)
Jun18June 19, 2022Abusive Authority, Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

24. I’m Sorry (Stand Alone)

But it was too late. My daughter had lost all of her friends; the connections were gone. She was hurt on a deep level.

22. Twenty Nineteen (Part 2)
Jun07June 14, 2022Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

22. Twenty Nineteen (Part 2)

I was back a full two weeks when the pastor decided that it was time to fire the music minister.

20. Twenty Nineteen (Part 1)
Jun07June 16, 2022Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

20. Twenty Nineteen (Part 1)

It was the first inkling I had that maybe it was time for me to quit. It was a strange, unsettling feeling. I tried to ignore it and move on.

19. Tree Town (Part 8)
Jun07June 8, 2022Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual, Spiritual Abuse

19. Tree Town (Part 8)

This next part is significant to the story because it proves the intent to control.  I know that sounds like lawyer talk, but trust me, it’s real.

18. Tree Town (Part 7)
Jun03June 7, 2022Church Hurt, Ministry, Spiritual Abuse

18. Tree Town (Part 7)

These were some words the pastor spoke… she will eventually hang herself, give her enough rope, and she will… let her fail. She will have to quit then… I can’t fire her; it will look bad on me…

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